You see people don't come with directions and we are all different. We are constantly evolving and growing. You never know what miracle could be walking into your life and because he or she didn't meet the requirement for #7 on the list you pass them up. You are a spiritual being with infinite resources available to you. Instead of looking for what the person doesn't have; why not look at what he or she does have and put that on a list!! It could say something like: "I like this about him or her." You could also make a list about the great things that you have to offer and the great things you see happening everyday in life. Make a list of gratitude --not one to block your blessings. As you start looking and appreciating everything and person that this world has to offer, more powerful things and people will be presented to you.

You never know why a person is in your life. They could be there for a reason or a season. A great goal is to explore you and learn about the beauty in everyone. Present your beauty to everyone you meet and see how many people gravitate to you. Focus on the good (we are not creating a customized car, house or computer - this is another human being - for goodness sake). It is kind of like the saying "if you water your grass it will be green too". Water your grass with positive things and be open to who is presented in your life. The next time you are so quick to dismiss someone because they don't have everything on your list… think about how you are not the same person that you were yesterday (believe it or not your hair has grown and your nails just since last night). I am not all, what I want to be, but Thank God I am not what I used to be!! This is true for you too! More often than not the reason why you are not what you used to be is because somewhere someone gave you a chance. You probably were not on their list and you did alright. Don't limit yourself. Be open to what is presented.

"Let the God in you see the God in every person that you meet".